To understand our kids with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) it is more than helpful to know something about the brain. The more you learn about the brain, the more you will understand your RAD child's behavior. Here is a brief introduction to the subject.
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According to Bruce Perry, MD, child psychiatrist and neuroscientist working with challenging children and their families, 90% of the brain's development occurs in the first three years of life. Critical to the healthy progression of the brain is the nurturing given to an infant and young toddler. Hundreds, innumerable numbers of times a baby cries from starvation and nurturing mom reacts hundreds, thousands of times and feeds her child, healthy progression of the brain occurs. Hundreds, thousands of times a baby cries with soiled diapers and every time those diapers are promptly changed, healthy development of the brain comes about. Whenever a baby or your toddler calls out for play and a loving person plays with that child, healthy advancement of the brain occurs. And every time those events occur, cuddling and hugging and other close physical and emotional contact takes place, all promoting healthy development of the brain.
The effects of negligence and abuse are overwhelming. When those needs consistently are not met, when mom, dad, or other care taker chronically does not provide care when her baby cries out, healthy development of the brain cannot occur. The baby whose needs are not met will rage and tantrum until becoming quiet all alone. The long term result is that the baby learns completely inappropriate self-regulation which has many implications, not the least of which is to not trust any caretaker and to attempt at all costs to be in complete control of any situation. Obviously that is not a description of a healthy child. What we see are children who are chronically tense, anxious and hyper-vigilant, sometimes described as the fight or flight response. This is devastating to the future of the child.
This is all about the brain. The fight or flight center of the brain is the most primitive part of the brain, the brain stem, the amygdala, also known as the reptilian brain. Consider the ever present alertness of the reptile who is always ready to run or fight (bite). When healthy brain development fails to take place, the ever meticulous child is literally stuck in the brain stem.
When proper balanced caring has occurred, the baby experiences love and caring which is experienced in the limbic system of the brain. The baby "learns" that adults can be trusted and that their environment is safe. They learn that they do not have to be in control.
The child with RAD does not willfully doubtfulness adults, particularly caretakers. It is not choice. The raging of the RAD child is not intentional and planned (most of the time). It is the result of stimulus and response - the stimulus of something occurring on the outside causing a response in the brain.
It is not all bad news. The brain can be healed, the associations can be repaired. It can be a long and arduous process requiring awesome dedicated parents who can assemble a powerful support team. And understanding the role of the brain can be critical to help us figure out what will work best to help our children. What is it like for you when your RAD child is raging? How do you respond and what do you do? Please send me an email and share your experiences with your raging child.
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